A House In Ruins

Interior of the Pantheon, Rome, Italy, 2011, taken by Martha Wiggins

Interior of the Pantheon, Rome, Italy, 2011, taken by Martha Wiggins

“You expected much, but see, it turned out to be little.  What you brought home, I blew away. Why?” declares the LORD Almighty. “Because of my house, which remains a ruin, while each of you is busy with your own house.”  Haggai 1:9

     Occasionally I share some of my favorite spiritual prayers, routines, and tools.  I call them Celestial Habits. Today I am sharing something which had a huge impact on my life many years ago.

     Most of us are very busy people, with big responsibilities in the way of jobs and caring for our families and loved ones.  Too often we have no choice but to put ourselves on the back burner.  When it comes to our spiritual self it is an entirely different matter.  While our hopes, dreams, and even out physical and monetary needs sometimes suffer because of immediate, serious responsibilities, our faith cannot be neglected if we hope to truly fulfill those responsibilities.

     In the verse from Haggai, we see how we can become so focused on our own busy life, our own house, that His house sits in ruin.  His house can mean our body, which is His temple, or our Faith, which through His grace is our lifeline to Him.  We also see in Haggai that if we neglect His house, our house will become in ruins; it will be blown away!  He says we expect much, but are so busy with ourselves and our responsibilities that we actually get little as a result.  In Haggai, the Lord warns us about being too busy! 

“Now this is what the LORD Almighty says: “Give careful thought to your ways.  You have planted much, but harvested little.  You eat, but never have enough.  You drink, but never have your fill.  You put on clothes, but are not warm.  You earn wages, only to put them in a purse with holes in it.”  (Haggai 1:5-6)

     Such was my life years ago, when raising three wonderful children, (a daughter who danced, and two sons who played baseball), teaching Art part-time at their school, and helping my husband start and grow his accounting firm.  We also had four cats, two dogs, and at times a few goldfish.  Actually, not much has changed today, except the kids are grown.  We are still very much involved with them, and now have wonderful, aging parents to help care for.  I don’t teach Art any more, but I do work part-time at our office.  And, our pets are now two beagles, two cats, and two turtles!  I share this only to make the point, like you, I am busy.  Too busy not to pray!

     The something which made a huge impact on my life was an inspiring book by Bill Hybels, entitled, “Too Busy Not to Pray.”  Hybels explains, “Prayerless people are cut off from God’s prevailing power, and the frequent result is the familiar feeling of being overwhelmed, overrun, beat down, pushed around, defeated.  Surprising numbers of people are willing to settle for lives like that.  Don’t be one of them.  Nobody has to live like that.  Prayer is the key to unlocking God’s prevailing power in your life.”

     I had a rich, full prayer life, but this book gave me, in simple terms, a way of maintaining that prayer life even in the very busy times.  For those who need it, and I did, he gives a method which is quite easy to follow.  It is how I learned the art of prayer journaling.  I now have more than ten years worth of journals that I affectionately call my “Books of Answered Prayer.”  I have proof that God hears, and answers all of my prayers.  I didn’t say He answered them all in the way I wanted them answered, but over the years all my prayers have been answered.

     Time was the biggest issue for me back then.  To make prayer journaling a priority in my prayer routine, I began to get up an extra fifteen minutes earlier than the rest of my household.  I went in the bathroom, closed the door, and sat on the edge of the tub, to gain the time and privacy I wanted.  I followed the journaling plan in the book: ACTS, A for Adoration, C for Confession, T for Thanksgiving, and S for Supplications.  Simple, yet effective, when followed.  I have prayed my children and husband through every day of their lives.  I always prayed that God would help my husband and I raise our children in the way He would have them raised, to be who He wanted them to be.  Every single day, I also write in my journal, “Lord, bless Turner and I.  Bless our Faith, our marriage, health, parenting, and finances.”

     I begin each day’s entry with a single word of praise, such as, “Lord you are Hope.” (Eternal, Sovereign, Creator, Almighty, Steadfast, etc.)  I confess simply, such as, “Lord, forgive me for judging others.” (for pride, gossip, anger, doubt, etc.)  Then I thank Him for something current, “Safety on the roads over the weekend.” (Time spent with one of the kids, a special prayer answered, etc.)  Then, and only then do I ask for those blessings and answers that I am in need of, my supplications.  And, I always sign off, “Bless our home and our pets.  Love, Martha.”

     I know you are all as busy as I am, so I know you are all too busy not to pray!  Prayer journaling is a great way to start a prayer routine or to rejuvenate one.  Dedicating a specific time to prayer and writing it down is a beautiful way of seeing His Hand at work in your life.  “Prayer is the key to unlocking God’s prevailing power in your life.”

     The Pantheon in Rome was built around 27-25 BC and still stands today in beautifully preserved condition.  It has withstood the tests of time.  Let the houses we build for the Lord also withstand the tests of time.

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Lord, You Are Majesty

Basilica Santa Maria sopra Minerva, Rome, Italy, (Basilica of St. Mary over Minerva) taken by Martha Wiggins, 2011

Basilica Santa Maria sopra Minerva, Rome, Italy, (Basilica of St. Mary over Minerva) taken by Martha Wiggins, 2011. Saint Catherine of Siena is buried beneath the altar, and to the left is a statue carved by Michelangelo -Christ Bearing The Cross.

Lord, You are Majesty.

Forgive me, Lord, when I lose the majesty by focusing on the mundane, or when I allow complacency to set in.

Thank you, Lord, for the beauty of your creation all around me.  Thank you for the majesty that is there, if I but look.  Let me seek and see your majesty in all.

     Don’t be so busy today with the mundane that you lose the majesty.  Be in awe!  Wonder!  Marvel at His creations!

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In God Is Our Trust…

The Star Spangled Banner is our national anthem.  I wonder how many of us have ever read the lyrics all the way through?  I particularly like the last few lines.  We are a nation under God and today is a great day to thank Him for the many blessings living in America adds to our lives.  It is also a great day to reaffirm our nation’s motto, “In God is our trust.”

The Star Spangled Banner by Francis Scott Key, 1814

Oh, say can you see by the dawn’s early light
What so proudly we hailed at the twilight’s last gleaming?
Whose broad stripes and bright stars thru the perilous fight,
O’er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming?
And the rocket’s red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there.
Oh, say does that star-spangled banner yet wave
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave?

On the shore, dimly seen through the mists of the deep,
Where the foe’s haughty host in dread silence reposes,
What is that which the breeze, o’er the towering steep,
As it fitfully blows, half conceals, half discloses?
Now it catches the gleam of the morning’s first beam,
In full glory reflected now shines in the stream:
‘Tis the star-spangled banner! Oh long may it wave
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave!

And where is that band who so vauntingly swore
That the havoc of war and the battle’s confusion,
A home and a country should leave us no more!
Their blood has washed out their foul footsteps’ pollution.
No refuge could save the hireling and slave
From the terror of flight, or the gloom of the grave:
And the star-spangled banner in triumph doth wave
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave!

Oh! thus be it ever, when freemen shall stand
Between their loved home and the war’s desolation!
Blest with victory and peace, may the heav’n rescued land
Praise the Power that hath made and preserved us a nation.
Then conquer we must, when our cause it is just,
And this be our motto: ‘In God is our trust.’
And the star-spangled banner in triumph shall wave
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave!

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Fruits Of The Spirit

“But the Spirit produces the fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,gentleness, self-control. There is no law that says these things are wrong.  Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified their own sinful selves. They have given up their old selfish feelings and the evil things they wanted to do.  We get our new life from the Spirit, so we should follow the Spirit.”   Galatians 5:22-25

      The fruits of the Spirit are the product of walking with God, they are manifestations of His Spirit within you.  Whenever you have difficulty in being patient, kind, gentle, or lack self-control, invite His Spirit walk with you.  Whenever you long for love, peace, or joy in your life, invite His Spirit to walk with you.  The more you invite His Spirit the more of His fruits He will produce in you.

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Traversing Life’s Roller-Coaster

     The Imitation of Christ is a devotional written in the 15th century whose authorship is attributed to Thomas a Kempis.  It is written in order to help the devout soul achieve holiness.  In other words, a road map to traverse through many of life’s different situations and through personal and spiritual development.  The following is an excerpt from The Imitation of Christ, Book Three, Chapter 23.  For many of us life rides like a roller-coaster with steep climbs and deep plunges.  To stay the course it says we must not focus on the fluctuating feelings within, but instead remain above it steadfastly fixing our gaze on Christ.  In doing so we will remain unshaken regardless what winds blow our way.  Google this beautiful devotional and sample some of the writings.  You will be richer for doing so and maybe even understand yourself in new way.  You may find the advice offered within to be life changing.    God Bless. 

OF INSTABILITY OF THE HEART, AND OF DIRECTING THE AIM TOWARDS GOD

“My Son, trust not thy feeling, for that which is now will be quickly changed into somewhat else. As long as thou livest thou art subject to change, howsoever unwilling; so that thou art found now joyful, now sad; now at peace, now disquieted; now devout, now indevout; now studious, now careless; now sad, now cheerful. But the wise man, and he who is truly learned in spirit, standeth above these changeable things, attentive not to what he may feel in himself, or from what quarter the wind may blow, but that the whole intent of his mind may carry him on to the due and much-desired end. For thus will he be able to remain one and the same and unshaken, the single eye of his desire being steadfastly fixed, through the manifold changes of the world, upon Me.  (The Imitation of Christ, Book III, Chapter XXIII)

 

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The BIG Things

     Yesterday’s post was about the ‘little’ things and how they are often the most important.  That said, we can never ignore the ‘BIG’ things.  Our religious freedoms and our ability to worship are under attack by our present government administration.  It is the most important issue of our time.  As people of faith we cannot idly sit by and watch.  I implore all of you to search your soul, choose your side, and make a stand.  This is my way.  I have chosen to share my faith publicly for some time now, and while I truly do not ever like to step on peoples toes, or involve myself in their personal choices, I cannot allow myself to sit quietly by and watch evil win over good, watch not only the Catholic faith, but all faiths, threatened in the way they choose to worship and live by their tenets.  Some of you may not choose to be public in this same way, but still want to find a personal way to take a stand.  That can certainly be accomplished through much needed, deliberate, and persevering prayer.  The Catholic Bishops have called for a Fortnight for Freedom, a call to a period of heartfelt prayer on behalf of the battle for our religious rights as a free people.  It begins today, June 21st and goes through July 4th.  I am providing a link to their site here, but also including here one of the prayers:

Prayer For The Protection of Religious Liberty

O God our Creator,

Through the power and working of your Holy Spirit,
you call us to live out our faith in the midst of the world,
bringing the light and the saving truth of the Gospel
to every corner of society.

We ask you to bless us
in our vigilance for the gift of religious liberty.
Give us the strength of mind and heart
to readily defend our freedoms when they are threatened;
give us courage in making our voices heard
on behalf of the rights of your Church
and the freedom of conscience of all people of faith.

Grant, we pray, O heavenly Father,
a clear and united voice to all your sons and daughters
gathered in your Church
in this decisive hour in the history of our nation,
so that, with every trial withstood
and every danger overcome—
for the sake of our children, our grandchildren,
and all who come after us—
this great land will always be “one nation, under God,
indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.”

We ask this through Christ our Lord.

Amen.

http://www.usccb.org/issues-and-action/religious-liberty/fortnight-for-freedom/index.cfm

Here is another link to an important message about the most important issues facing people of faith in the coming election:

http://www.youtube.com/watch_popup?v=D9vQt6IXXaM&hd

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The Little Things

     We often hear that it is the ‘little’ things that make the biggest difference.  Sometimes the world presents huge problems where there seems to be no direct solution or path to follow.  Remember that little steps add up to a journey, little kindnesses add up to a gift, and little acceptances add up to a friend!

     The following prayer is a beautiful little prayer for ‘charity’.  And, little acts of charity add up to love!

Keep me, O God, from pettiness; let me be large in thought, in word, in deed. Let me be done with fault-finding and self-seeking. May I put away all pretense and meet everyone face to face without self-pity and without prejudice. May I never be hasty in judgment and always generous. Let me take time for all things. Make me grow calm, serene and gentle. Teach me to put into action my better impulses, straightforward and unafraid. Grant that I may realize it is the little things of life that create differences and that in the big things of life we are one. And, O Lord God, let me not forget to be kind!  (http://www.ourcatholicprayers.com/prayer-for-charity.html)

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Get Your Builder’s Permit Here!

(From 2011)

“So David lived in the strong, walled city and called it the City of David.  David built more buildings around it, beginning where the land was filled in.  He also built more buildings inside the city.  He became stronger and stronger, because the Lord God All-Powerful was with him.”

     Oh, to live in the security of a walled city, a fortress.  Oh, to be prospered and protected.  Oh, to know the feeling of strength, to accomplish, to persevere.  Can there truly be such an existence?

     The answer is yes; with God, all things are possible.  In 1 and 2 Samuel,  we read about David.  As long as he follows God’s will, as long as he is fulfilling God’s plan for his life, he perseveres, he prospers.  Is it without adversity?  No.  One only has to read a little of his life’s story to see it was filled with struggles and adversities such as war, murder, and infidelity.  And yet, David became King, and from the house of David came our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

     We struggle in our everyday lives to be the person God wants us to be.  Many of us fail over and over again.  Many turn and walk away, doomed to lives filled with turmoil and misery.  In reality, it is us who must build our stronghold, our walled city.  We build it brick by brick, prayer by prayer, one faith-filled act at a time.

     To build our stronghold we must begin within ourselves, by seeking God’s plan for our life.  We do this by spending time in silence before Him.  When we realize our own wall of strength and protection, we begin to build one around our loved ones.  We do this by praying for their faith and for their protection.  We also witness our own faith to them.  As we build, we grow ever stronger, able to withstand the attacks from the outside.  As we build, our fortress expands to encompass ourselves, our loved ones, and others around us who witness and immitate our strength and faith.

     Do the attacks keep coming?  Yes, and probably even more so than before, because now, like David, you are with the Lord God All-Powerful.  Just as David did, you may falter along the way.  But, because you are God’s, your fortress will prove strong.  The evil one’s battering ram is fiercely strong also, but not against the Lord God All-Powerful.

     Oh, to live in the walled city of God, to be heir to His throne, to be safe within the care of the Lord God All-Powerful.  Get your builder’s permit today.  Spend time in His silence before Him.

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Call Upon El Roi, The God Who Sees

(From 2011)

“Where can I go from your spirit?  from your presence where can I flee?  If  I go up to the heavens, your are there; if I sink to the nether world, you are present there. ”  Psalm 139:-8

     All of us carry around hurt within our heart.  It may be from long ago, or not quite so long ago.  We may have forgiven and tried to forget; we may have filed it away and tried to live our life as if it never occurred.  Most of us have the ability to put our hurts behind us and move on.  It doesn’t mean the hurt didn’t happen, or it is totally forgotten.  It just means we choose to live outside of it.

     Years ago God led me to a beautiful book entitled, “Lord, I Want To Know You, by Christian author, Kay Arthur.  It is a study of the different names of the Lord.  As Kay puts it, “… so that you will know where to run to find help in time of need.”  The book highlights the Old Testament Names of God, explaining the meaning of, and giving examples of how they can be used in our everyday lives.  It has had a profound effect on me. To this day, I call upon our Lord using many of the names I learned.  I find it very comforting.

     The name which helps tremendously when dealing with hurt in our lives is El Roi, The God Who Sees.  When we choose to move beyond our hurts, we often do so without being truly healed.  Something often comes up bringing it to the forefront of our memory.  We relive it in our minds and hearts, and then try to move beyond it again.  The cycle repeats itself leaving us bewildered and very much alone in our hurt.

     Kay Arthur uses the example of Hagar in the Bible.  Hagar was the servant of Abram and his wife, Sarai.  Because they had no children, Hagar was forced to bear Abram a son, and then suffered the abuse of the jealous, Sarai.  When Hagar wanted to run, God instructed her to return into the abuse, and name her son, Ishmael.  He promised Hagar that her descendants would be too many to count; Ishmael would lead a great nation!

     God asked much of Hagar, for the abuse was not going to stop.  She would return to it, live through it, and prosper from it.  God had seen all that happened to her, and He would continue to see.  As hard as it is to fathom, God would allow the abuse in order to bring about the ultimate good in her life and the lives of others involved.  Just like Hagar, we see people today who suffer through all kinds of hurt, mistreatment, and abuse.  It comes in many forms: mental, physical, emotional, and many must suffer in total silence.  No one knows; no one can help them.  We ask how God can allow this and how can there ever be true healing from such evil?

     There is no one complete answer.  Like Hagar, we must trust in God’s sovereign plan. Then, the place to run with the pain and hurt is El Roi, The God Who Sees.  As Kay Arthur points out, He saw the sins committed against you and He will vindicate you, if not in this life, then on the day of judgement.  In His sovereign power, if you but trust in Him, He will work out all for your good.  He saw, He loves, and He restores.

     El Roi can also be a source of constant comfort for parents.  Are your teenagers out late?  Has a child run away from home?  Do you have a child away at college, out on there own for the first time?  While you can’t see them, El Roi can.  El Roi sees them every minute of every day.  Call upon El Roi, and take comfort in The God Who Sees watching over them.  Take comfort in knowing He will work all things, even the bad, for the good of those who know and trust Him.  

“…you know when I sit and when I stand; you understand my thoughts from afar.  My journeys and my rest you scrutinize, with all my ways you are familiar.”  Psalm 139:2-3  

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You Can’t Hide…He Knows

(From 2011)

“The word of God is something alive and active: it cuts more incisively than any two-edged sword: it can seek out the place where soul is divided from spirit, or joints from marrow; it can pass judgement on secret emotions and thoughts.  No created thing is hidden from him; everything is uncovered and stretched fully open to the eyes of the one to whom we must give account of ourselves.”  Hebrews 4:12-13

     The first thing that comes to mind when I read the above Bible verse is, “Who do we think we are fooling!”  Certainly not G0d; who knows all, sees all, and rules all.  As disconcerting as this can be, it is also comforting.  It tells me there is someone who really knows me, knows all there is to know about me, even my deepest, darkest secrets.  You know, the ones we can never speak of out loud, or the ones we can never tell another living soul.  He knows.

     We don’t like to think about these things. It makes us feel uncomfortable.  We squirm in our seats.  We quickly change the thoughts in our mind.  We shove it to the very back corner, close and lock the door.  But, even after doing all of this, a small part of us, a little twinge in our heart, tells us it is not completely hidden.  He knows.

       A little further on in that same Hebrews quote we read verse 15, “For the high priest we have is not incapable of feeling our weaknesses with us, but has been put to the test exactly the same way as ourselves, apart from sin.”  This falls under the category of ‘good to know’ information.  We can be friends, Him and I.  After all, He has lived it.  We have common ground to commiserate!  We all love to share our experiences with friends who can relate to us; and with others who have been through similar experiences, especially the bad experiences.  We need and appreciate their support.  We share, and that is the basis of a good friendship.  He knows.

     We should see our relationship with God, not just as Supreme Being, Creator, Father, King, and Lord of All,  but also as our best friend.  When we view Him as our friend we unlock the door to the hidden vault, the door to our heart.  We no longer need to hide anything.  Remember, it isn’t really hidden anyway.  He already knows.  However, now, we can openly share it with Him in the trusted relationship of friendship.  We can seek His advice and receive His support.  I love the next line of the above Hebrews quote, verse 16, “Let us, then, have no fear in approaching the throne of grace to receive mercy and to find grace when we are in need of help.”

         No, we aren’t fooling anyone!  But, doesn’t He make it easy for us to receive all that we need, to be the all that we can be?  Gotta love Him!  He knows.

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